With my low experience and relatively bad “insinuation” skills, this is what I’ve come up with:
- condom wrappers she knows you didn’t use on her in a natural but also semi obvious place
- pictures of you and a girl being close but not lovey-dovey on instagram, enough to make someone think there could be more but without showing it
- “accidental” articles of clothes left behind from a girl at your place
- for a newer girl, on a date: check her fingernails, qualify her on their cleanliness and trimming. Say something to the effect that good hygiene of the hands is important to you (and she might look at your well-trimmed fingernails in turn, which would imply that you have a reason for having short fingernails)
- “accidentally” forget to put away toys you used on another girl, notice them and put them away
Use your intuition and many grains of salt towards this advice/suggestions.
I think flirting and kino in front of the girl would be enough. I would be honest with the girl really ( not the wife obviously), that you both can see other people. Personally I think so much drama is potentially dangerous and can get you in trouble with both the civil (divorce) or criminal (*ape accusations) law
With my low experience and relatively bad “insinuation” skills, this is what I’ve come up with:
- condom wrappers she knows you didn’t use on her in a natural but also semi obvious place
- pictures of you and a girl being close but not lovey-dovey on instagram, enough to make someone think there could be more but without showing it
- “accidental” articles of clothes left behind from a girl at your place
- for a newer girl, on a date: check her fingernails, qualify her on their cleanliness and trimming. Say something to the effect that good hygiene of the hands is important to you (and she might look at your well-trimmed fingernails in turn, which would imply that you have a reason for having short fingernails)
- “accidentally” forget to put away toys you used on another girl, notice them and put them away
Use your intuition and many grains of salt towards this advice/suggestions.
Some of these might be a little too obvious, but the direction is right... just a little bit is ideal, something plausibly deniable...
I think flirting and kino in front of the girl would be enough. I would be honest with the girl really ( not the wife obviously), that you both can see other people. Personally I think so much drama is potentially dangerous and can get you in trouble with both the civil (divorce) or criminal (*ape accusations) law