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LOL. Way to bury the lead. But good on you for owning it.

I was on a podcast recently where I talked about how women self buffer. This post doesn't expressly state that, but it is what your experience has been.

You attractiveness, options, lifestyle, etc. is too much for a lot of women to handle and as such they get riddled with anxiety and eventually bounce.

It seems that you are adept and accustomed to this. Most guys aren't and will never be. Furthermore, most guys do want to settle down.

Guys who don't fuck look at the "alphas" (whatever the fuck they means) as some infallible and perfect way of being. They have their own issues.

Always enjoy reading your posts, sir!

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Red quest rewards the people paying attention!

Bike Girl was okay, very good in some ways, but she always felt a little like someone who was just kind of floating / drifting through life, unmoored by much, kind of purposeless... I was not going to be her anchor, not really... nice woman but I would have gotten bored with her long term and she would have been frustrated with me...

I've also been guilty of plenty of r^tard shit. Most guys want to edit that out... I do too, sometimes... but sometimes, I gotta go full retard.

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I would argue that is most women.

Women don't steer the ship, they enjoy the cruise.

I enjoy your content. I'm a fucking degenerate when I'm single, but really do enjoy a sturdy relationship where the extent of my degenerate behavior stays monogamous in the confines of a bedroom.

I accepted that dichotomy in myself a long, long time ago, which is why I had few relationships and a ton of situationships (as they would be called today).

Always a good read. I would think not many can relate.

Cheers sir!

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>>Always a good read. I would think not many can relate.

When I started RQ I thought lots of guys were out there with the problems that players have, and would be interested in the non-monogamous solutions I used, https://theredquest.substack.com/p/free-book, but I now think most guys vaguely interested in this material aren't getting laid at all, or barely are, https://theredquest.substack.com/p/most-guys-dont-care-much-about-getting-laid-i-hypothesize.

My hypothesis was, if not outright disproved, then at least strong evidence weighs against it.

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You're not wrong, sir. Cheers!

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