Remember the Sopranos scene with Carmela's therapist? The therapist cuts through all of Carmela’s rationalizations about staying with a monster (which are also, tweaked slightly, the viewer’s rationalizations for liking Tony). The therapist says Carmela has to leave her husband and that Carmela is enabling evil. Carmela thinks she should leave but says, "You’re going to charge the same anyway," and he says, "I won't accept blood money." It's this incredible fight for values, and Carmela can't comprehend the therapist's values: her whole world requires her