What science, engineering, math, and other nerds get wrong about talking to women
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Science, engineering, math, and other nerds often care foremost about correctness, and their conversation shows their main priority, but "caring deeply about correctness" is unusual... in conversation, most people, especially attractive women, care about creating a positive vibe, laughing, group feeling, finding hierarchies, showcasing values, yeeting the outgroup, etc. Being factually right and learning new things is less than secondary, less than tertiary. This divergence in interest and purpose leads to a common failure mode between nerds and attractive women, and the conversation often goes something like,
What science, engineering, math, and other nerds get wrong about talking to women
What science, engineering, math, and other…
What science, engineering, math, and other nerds get wrong about talking to women
Science, engineering, math, and other nerds often care foremost about correctness, and their conversation shows their main priority, but "caring deeply about correctness" is unusual... in conversation, most people, especially attractive women, care about creating a positive vibe, laughing, group feeling, finding hierarchies, showcasing values, yeeting the outgroup, etc. Being factually right and learning new things is less than secondary, less than tertiary. This divergence in interest and purpose leads to a common failure mode between nerds and attractive women, and the conversation often goes something like,