"reciprocates her interest in a direct and kind way"
This is what I am naturally, and while it is boring to those women, it is very attractive to a particular niche in which unsurprisingly I am interested. Those girls are honest and have insight and action into their own social programming, and those are qualities which lack of I find unattractive to the point of steadily and quickly losing interest in a girl, unfortunately I do give them more time than they deserve if they a hotter than the previous woman I was with, something I need to work on. Hopefully after hitting enough "hot" women I'll find that curiosity weaken and give way to "hot enough, but also smart enough according to my standards".
Does anyone share those feelings? I feel like being direct and kind is a product of 1) I am European, and European women compared to US women(where most 'red pill" content come from) prefer more feminine guys relative to what US women prefer, and 2) I am more around artistic subculture, where women prefer even more feminine guys, or more polarising, weird kind of guys but they still need to be somewhat artistic, direct and kind
I may be wrong about being okay with being way more this kind of guy than those women from the quote prefer, but IMO the thing about "Internet red pill" is that it's us-centric as fuck and people from other countries seem to completely ignore that. Yeah, if u go as a US tourist to another country, of course you're gonna "find women the same", but that's exactly coz you're meeting them in the same CIRCUMSTANCES that attract THIS kind of women, for THIS kind of encounter - you're an exotic tourist in some pop culture low-class EDM cringe club
You get my point I think.
Ironically I had my 1st time, 1st person experience with a BPD drug addict chick, who was very fun, yet manipulated to no end, even though I'd state directly with my words, actions (drug use), that I do not want, desire nor am a good or viable relationship partner. She being BPD seemed offended and surprised by every time she'd find out I do not want to do X or Y relationship thing that boyfriends do.
> IMO the thing about "Internet red pill" is that it's us-centric as fuck and people from other countries seem to completely ignore that
Write your own blog / substack, I will subscribe for a different perspective.
You may also have had a healthy upbringing and family life and so the squalid dysfunctional behavior repulses you. The people who have had neither often find squalid dysfunctional behavior attractive or appealing.
"reciprocates her interest in a direct and kind way"
This is what I am naturally, and while it is boring to those women, it is very attractive to a particular niche in which unsurprisingly I am interested. Those girls are honest and have insight and action into their own social programming, and those are qualities which lack of I find unattractive to the point of steadily and quickly losing interest in a girl, unfortunately I do give them more time than they deserve if they a hotter than the previous woman I was with, something I need to work on. Hopefully after hitting enough "hot" women I'll find that curiosity weaken and give way to "hot enough, but also smart enough according to my standards".
Does anyone share those feelings? I feel like being direct and kind is a product of 1) I am European, and European women compared to US women(where most 'red pill" content come from) prefer more feminine guys relative to what US women prefer, and 2) I am more around artistic subculture, where women prefer even more feminine guys, or more polarising, weird kind of guys but they still need to be somewhat artistic, direct and kind
I may be wrong about being okay with being way more this kind of guy than those women from the quote prefer, but IMO the thing about "Internet red pill" is that it's us-centric as fuck and people from other countries seem to completely ignore that. Yeah, if u go as a US tourist to another country, of course you're gonna "find women the same", but that's exactly coz you're meeting them in the same CIRCUMSTANCES that attract THIS kind of women, for THIS kind of encounter - you're an exotic tourist in some pop culture low-class EDM cringe club
You get my point I think.
Ironically I had my 1st time, 1st person experience with a BPD drug addict chick, who was very fun, yet manipulated to no end, even though I'd state directly with my words, actions (drug use), that I do not want, desire nor am a good or viable relationship partner. She being BPD seemed offended and surprised by every time she'd find out I do not want to do X or Y relationship thing that boyfriends do.
> Does anyone share those feelings?
Yes.
> where most 'red pill" content come from
Keep in mind most of the guys writing this stuff are losers and failures... https://theredquest.substack.com/p/the-curious-cautionary-fates-of-many-of-the-guys-who-go-deep-into-game-and-internet ... not all, so no need for guys to post about how they are neither... but a lot are. The women writing the most extreme anti-male feminist material and the guys writing the most extreme red pill material are the same in terms of personality and underlying problems.
> IMO the thing about "Internet red pill" is that it's us-centric as fuck and people from other countries seem to completely ignore that
Write your own blog / substack, I will subscribe for a different perspective.
You may also have had a healthy upbringing and family life and so the squalid dysfunctional behavior repulses you. The people who have had neither often find squalid dysfunctional behavior attractive or appealing.