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What occurred to me reading this is that essentially, in terms of dating, sex, and romance, almost all women are naturals. Like, because biology, most girls have some point between 16-25 where they're highly attractive to men for no particular reason other than existing. I suppose the exception are the girls who don't have good diets, get fat early, and then at some point figure out how to diet and exercise, and then get hot. But those are by far the exception, which is why I think for most women, at some point between 30 and 35, being single becomes way harder and they can't understand why or how to fix it.

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They are. Guys are far behind. But the guys who learn to be top guys catch up and surpass even pretty canny women.

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Dec 19, 2023Liked by the red quest

I think there is some degree of “nurture” still present in women’s existence though. 100% agreed that they just “are” and have a great life from 18 - 28 because of their massive SMV. But women also talk regularly and share female game strategies as early as pre-high school. They also can fuck their lives up permanently in the sense that there is a defined window for getting that peak SMV guy they all want. If they don’t experience him in that window, it’s a likely permanent loss. And if they do deleterious things like gaining weight, I would argue that’s “anti-game” for themselves. Women know that thin young women are the queens of the SMV. They compare themselves with other women when competing for top guys. I think Roissy talked about this way back in the day. An aside, did my 2 approaches for the day, 2 blowouts. I’ll live to fight another day.

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