The positive, light-side frame, not the negative, dark-side frame
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This turned into a non-actionable ramble, but it is a fundamental statement of my views and psychology... it emerged in response to this Nash comment, so if you want to understand the context, check that first. In the RP and seduction communities, I get the sense that some guys (maybe most?) are kind of cold/damaged. They've failed too many times and are seeking revenge, or seeking to "get a free one" off chicks. Or to get a chick in the inferior position, so that HE has the power (for once) and will get to feel what it's like to have arbitrary power over another person. None of those are good primary frames, in my view, even if they can be attractive at times.
The positive, light-side frame, not the negative, dark-side frame
The positive, light-side frame, not the…
The positive, light-side frame, not the negative, dark-side frame
This turned into a non-actionable ramble, but it is a fundamental statement of my views and psychology... it emerged in response to this Nash comment, so if you want to understand the context, check that first. In the RP and seduction communities, I get the sense that some guys (maybe most?) are kind of cold/damaged. They've failed too many times and are seeking revenge, or seeking to "get a free one" off chicks. Or to get a chick in the inferior position, so that HE has the power (for once) and will get to feel what it's like to have arbitrary power over another person. None of those are good primary frames, in my view, even if they can be attractive at times.