I am struggling with the same issues. Regarding "man, after getting used to an attractive woman in her 20s, going back to a 40+ woman is hard. Harder than it should be..."
The basic problem is, a girl is like a flower - pretty and alluring, but for a fleeting moment in time. Every sweet girl turns into an unattractive mess. I have seen it happen in just a couple of years.
At the same time, a man can remain interesting to women for a lifetime, more or less... if he is serious about it.
It has kept me from entering into anything resembling a long term relationship. But at the same time, we all crave close connections. I really don't know the solution to this one.
Did women really call back when you give them your number? I had a friend who tried that but got quickly harshly rebuffed from a women who said something like “calling is your job”.
It's better to get her # but sometimes circumstances don't allow it.
A theme in RQ is doing a lot of things, including some low-probability things, and if you do enough low-probability things, some of them will work out.
And then tell the stories, like you're with the lads at the bar... some humour helps...
A lot of guys barely try anything and then give up.
I like that harsh response. The lady is basically pointing out what is male and what is female behaviour, and that it's not advisable to mix it up. Especially in the early stages of a relationship. Men are leaders, women are followers, and if you try to do things the other way around, at best you will end up with unattractive women.
I am struggling with the same issues. Regarding "man, after getting used to an attractive woman in her 20s, going back to a 40+ woman is hard. Harder than it should be..."
The basic problem is, a girl is like a flower - pretty and alluring, but for a fleeting moment in time. Every sweet girl turns into an unattractive mess. I have seen it happen in just a couple of years.
At the same time, a man can remain interesting to women for a lifetime, more or less... if he is serious about it.
It has kept me from entering into anything resembling a long term relationship. But at the same time, we all crave close connections. I really don't know the solution to this one.
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Did women really call back when you give them your number? I had a friend who tried that but got quickly harshly rebuffed from a women who said something like “calling is your job”.
It's better to get her # but sometimes circumstances don't allow it.
A theme in RQ is doing a lot of things, including some low-probability things, and if you do enough low-probability things, some of them will work out.
And then tell the stories, like you're with the lads at the bar... some humour helps...
A lot of guys barely try anything and then give up.
I like that harsh response. The lady is basically pointing out what is male and what is female behaviour, and that it's not advisable to mix it up. Especially in the early stages of a relationship. Men are leaders, women are followers, and if you try to do things the other way around, at best you will end up with unattractive women.