We've all heard women say they wish their partners, or guys in general, would be better "communicators," but I'm suspect of this meme: pleas for better "communication" often mean "I want the other person to do what I want," and indirect communication often means "I know the other person doesn't want what I want, so I'm going to be deliberately ambiguous." A very common form of this: a man and woman have been f**king for a while, a few weeks, maybe even a month or two, and the woman wants to define the relationship, while the man doesn't.