It isn't hard to find basic seduction arts material online
Teach yourself, first
I get queries about whether I've written about the basics of seduction arts and game. I deliberately haven’t, not directly, although I have a post about books for learning game. The queries imply negative things about the guy asking. In school you’re sometimes told that there are no stupid questions... much less often you’re told the same at work, and the disparity tells us about school. There are stupid questions, as we’ve all seen in school when the teacher explains something, and then some dumbass is like, “Hey, can you explain the thing you’ve just explained, again?”
Becoming good at seduction arts demands tenacity, self-motivation, and determination. There’s a surfeit of material online about the bare basics of the seduction arts and getting started. “Basics” is like 99% of the material out there. If a guy lacks the ability to find it and learn it... I can’t help him. He needs not seduction arts skills but “how do I learn things” skills. The guys who send these messages inevitably seem hapless. The messages NEVER say, “Hey dude, here are the search queries I’ve used so far, here are the things I’ve learned, what do you think? Is this accurate or not? What should the next steps be?”
Instead, the messages are always from guys who appear to have done nothing, tried nothing, searched for nothing, and read nothing. If a guy can’t do the minimum to figure this out, is he going to get anywhere with the game?
Not everyone claiming to help a guy with the seduction arts knows what he’s talking about and bad advice exists. There are conflicts among various guys dispensing advice, but it is not difficult to learn something of seduction, men and women, talking to chicks, and self-improvement. Gen Z is so autistic that they need lessons in small talk but anyone can get started using existing material. There are some countervailing forces to becoming good at the seduction arts, I understand that.
Some people are baseline effective and some people are baseline ineffective. It is possible for ineffective people to become effective over time (the military specializes in this process), but I am not going to be the catalyst for ineffective guys.
Because 99% of the material out there targets newbie guys, I’ve consciously decided to do something else. Everyone else can speak to newbies, I will target intermediate/advanced guys. I talk about the powers of non-monogamy for guys who already have some seduction arts skills. It’s super important, but also barely discussed, and therefore of value. The things that everyone else is saying, I don’t need to cover. I don’t need to do Girardian mimesis. I will go from n = 0 to n = 1, rather than from n = 1 to n = many. If I’m not doing something unique, then what I’m doing isn’t worth doing.
To the extent hot chicks have liked me and wanted to be with me, they’ve noticed that, whatever I am, I’m not like other guys. Plenty of chicks want to be part of the herd and are repelled by me. Enough chicks like that I’m different, for me to have had a wild ride. I don’t compete vigorously along a lot of conventional metrics. I compete along different metrics, in different ways, that have far fewer competitors. It means that my wild ride has been pretty different. And that’s been good. Competition is for suckers.
Read Red Quest, read the books I’ve put out, but figure out the basics for yourself. My specialty lies elsewhere. If you haven’t learned how to learn, expect a rough go with women.
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