Most guys still don't know and can't do BDSM, but Yoylo, who is working the game says, "I know it sounds a weird request - but how would you stage a sex date with a girl who has complained all her life about sex not being rough enough? I’m planning the date with the MILF for next week."
>> and ideally the chick will say "yellow" if you get her to that end state
Critically, this means to the guys wanting to try bdsm that they should learn to incorporate “red”, “yellow”, and “green” lights (safe words) into their play with a girl. I hadn’t realized that explicitly and had just been cruising along without them until around a month ago.
How/at what point in the interaction do you have the “safe word” talk with a girl, to make sure it isn’t uncalibrated BUT isn’t too late (already in the middle of choking her, for instance)?
>> and ideally the chick will say "yellow" if you get her to that end state
Critically, this means to the guys wanting to try bdsm that they should learn to incorporate “red”, “yellow”, and “green” lights (safe words) into their play with a girl. I hadn’t realized that explicitly and had just been cruising along without them until around a month ago.
How/at what point in the interaction do you have the “safe word” talk with a girl, to make sure it isn’t uncalibrated BUT isn’t too late (already in the middle of choking her, for instance)?