"She’ll accept the value proposition you’re offering at the start"
"She’ll accept the value proposition you’re offering at the start, whatever the form. The guy sets the frame, and it’s hard to change once in place."
Does this sound familiar? I wrote an essay, "Women want to follow your lead: a story about a woman presenting two ways," covering similar territory.
The more you know about women, the more you get that the vast majority live in a gray area, not in black or white. Maybe some (the religious, the dedicated polyamorous) live in a black or white world, but the vast majority don't.