Most guys are weak. Be different: "Today’s men are not nearly as strong as their dads were, researchers say"
"Today’s men are not nearly as strong as their dads were, researchers say" is a must-read. The short, un-PC version is that most guys are pussies. Are you one? Then stop being one. Being a pussy is a choice that you make eery day.
Based on reading "Today’s men are not nearly as strong as their dads were, researchers say," it's not surprising that most guys have problems with women, since most guys have weak, flabby bodies matched with weak, flabby minds and weak, flabby personalities. None of those are attractive to women. If you fix those fundamentals (most guys are too busy playing video games and watching Internet porn to bother) you will beat 80% or more of guys out there.
The WaPo article says,
To look at it another way: In 1985, the typical 30-to-34-year-old man could squeeze your hand with 31 pounds more force than the typical woman of that age could. But today, older millennial men and women are roughly equal when it comes to grip strength.
Women don't want a guy who is only as strong as they are. They want considerably stronger. Tough love: if you are a pussy in the physical realm you deserve to have those problems. Women are into bdsm, but how is a guy going to do that well if his grip strength is so poor?
I've had lots of problems in my life but I've never had some of the extreme problems with women a lot of guys have. I think that's because I developed strong sports and athletics habits early and never gave up. The price modern guys pay is never being able to give up. Most of the guys I swam with and lifted with when I was younger are now typical fatasses, and they have all the typical older guy fatass problems.
I know I keep saying this, but that's because it's so important: you will beat a huge percentage of guys just by not being a pussy.
Studies consistently show that "muscularity is significantly positively associated with the number of total sexual partners and partners in the last year" and "Handgrip strength is correlated with self-assessed happiness, health, social confidence, overall physical attractiveness, and overall number of sexual partners". Do you want to be a guy who f**ks? Take into account female preference for muscular men.