Girls talking about their friend's open relationship: It's happening
Are you ready for the non-monogamy reality?
(2021)
The other day I'm in a mezzanine above the gym's snack bar, and below me are four chicks, one loudly describing her friend's open relationship. Friends's open relationship, more accurately, cause she knows, and the others there appear to know, this couple in an open relationship, and the girl talking in the snack bar says the guy is busy f**king a bunch of girls... while the girl is bisexual and ALSO f**king a bunch of girls.
The other three girls's reactions is the most interesting part: one is generally positive or approving. Another is generally hostile and disapproving, and she’s trying to establish the consensus that the open relationship "is not okay," to use girl terminology. Personally I prefer old-school Christian terminology like "they are damned" or "they are disobeying the will of God" or "they are sinners" instead of the new-school, wishy-washy, California SJW terminology like "not okay," but, whatever, you call someone a heresiarch these days and everyone looks at you funny. You don’t even know what a heresiarch is? Sad. Education ain’t what it used to be.
The other girl listening seems neutral. She’s not loudly expressing her view. The speaker seems lightly positive, like she's the teacher educating the others on the nuts and bolts of open relationships, and how this couple is doing it. Now, class, what is the square root of three?
On Substack Notes and elsewhere, I've been linking to articles discussing open relationships, sex clubs, and other aspects of non-monogamy, with the statement, "It's happening:" I repeat "It's happening" because it is happening, ready or not, and these random girls are a small but real piece of evidence regarding the shift. Guys who want to be maximally successful should think about how the shift to non-monogamy might affect them and their game. I'm not saying all guys should do sex clubs (in fact I say the opposite in the free book), but guys should at a minimum be aware of it. Talk to enough girls and you're going to run into girls who're doing it, or interested. If you like hedonistic adventurous girls like I do, talking about your time in sex clubs will attract and intrigue them (you'll be different from other guys). If you have trouble maintaining a girl while satiating your hunger for new girls, consensual non-monogamy is one way to satisfy both conditions.
This was an overheard conversation not so much notable for its basic content but for it happening at all. Word is spreading. The conversation also showcased female group dynamics (remember: social life is primarily a team sport), because the girls were trying to establish consensus and sway the group... the hostile girl wanted the group to be hostile, the approving girl wanted its approval, and the neutral girl might end up being the deciding vote.
Because I know you're wondering, only one is attractive (the quiet one, but you knew that already too) and the other three were overweight. Does that change how you envision the situation? Explain in the comments.
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