Embrace the awkward

In the real world, seduction and intersex relationships are often awkward. I didn't know that when I was younger and I thought that being awkward was a sign of my own ineptness. It wasn't and instead it was a sign of how things are for most people. Also, who cares how awkward it is if you still have sex?

Most girls actually have shit social skills and don't know how to act around guys they like and aren't good conversationalists. So meeting, seducing, and sleeping with them is often awkward because of both parties. Paradoxically, the more a guy embraces and rejoices and accepts the awkward, the smoother many interactions will go.

If you are a guy your job is to assume the sale and keep escalating (in a reasonable way or reasonable time) until you are fucking her or she stops you. The whole process might be awkward but when your dick is in her you don't care, do you? Escalate until you can't anymore. Often you will escalate your way right into sex that wouldn't happen is you stood around waiting for the girl to indicate overt approval (which most girls will never do).

In movies and TV a lot of things are smooth and the characters have witty banter and the sex is magic and everyone comes after three pumps. That's because Hollywood produces fantasy. In real life shit doesn't work that way, yet we're conditioned by watching and absorbing fantasy.