I think every player has something "extreme" about him. Some examples being...
* Extremely good looking.
* Extremely charismatic.
* Extremely wealthy.
* Extremely obsessed with and good at cold approach (this is the Krauser and Tom Torero approach).
* Extreme artistic/creative skill.
In my case, I'm pretty extreme about diet and gym. I'm not very extreme about cold-approach pickup. I'm also pretty extreme about not wasting time on social media, TV, etc. It means I miss out on the sports/TV chat. It means people don't get why I'm reading all the time. But my extreme habits are why I lead a very different life than most of my colleagues and peers.
Rolando points me to another example of this basic idea.